I had the pleasure of doing the first Passion Talk at my school again this year. A Passion Talk is when we gather the whole school to listen to someone engage our students in a conversation around passion and drive and doing things that make us feel alive. I wanted to do something different than what I did last year. Knowing my students struggle constantly with self-esteem and self-doubt, much like I did in high school, I decided to write this poem to both lift my students up, and give them some phrases to use to own their struggles instead of allowing their struggles to own them. Here is what I wrote…
Dear Self-Doubt,
You don’t even go here!
All you do is get in my way
You stop me from going after things I really want
Honestly, you’re really annoying
I think we need to break up
Dear Lack of Self-Esteem,
Ain’t nobody got time for you!
All you do is get in my way
You make me believe I’m not capable or worthy
Low key, you’re really frustrating
I think it’s time we see other people
Dear Fear,
Bro, you cat-fished me!
All you do is get in my way
You are F, false, E, evidence, A, appearing, R, real
Basically what I’m saying is, you’re fake
You are officially blocked
Dear Haters,
You need to calm down!
Dear Worry,
Thank you, next!
Dear Anxiety,
Girl, bye!
Dear Self,
You’re in control.
You have everything you need.
You are loved. You are worthy. You are enough.
You got this.
Sincerely,
Nicky Geis